Kailey's birth - 23 weeks and 3 days

Kailey's due date was May 21st 2012. On January 23rd she decided she didn't want to wait so long before she met mommy and daddy. I awoke at 4:00am to my water breaking. Terrified, I woke my husband up and he rushed me to the nearest hospital. After being examined by nurses and having an ultrasound done they sent my doctor in to talk to me. She informed me that at 23 weeks the baby would not be viable. Then I was moved to a room to prepare to deliver my child. An hour had passed and my doctor came to check on me and realized I had not progressed any with my labor. She left the room and when she returned she said she was sending me to a hospital with a better NICU and high risk doctors. Two hours later I arrived at the Childrens Hospital, the doctors checked me and thought i was going to deliver at any moment. Kailey had her butt and part of her legs sticking out of the cervix (she was bent like she was touching her toes). They started me on magnesium to try to stop my contractions, It worked (mostly). Throughout the next couple days when they checked her position they were amazed to find out she had one leg through the cervix, then the next time when they checked she had climbed back in half way. My little girl couldn't figure out if she wanted to stay in or come out. On January 26th the doctors stopped the magnesium due to me being infected. (I had received two steroid shots to help her lungs develop, without the shots there wasnt much of a chance for her.) It was time for Kailey to make her grand appearance. At 2:30pm I told my wonderful nurse that I felt like I needed to push, she ran to get all of the doctors (we had 5 doctors/assistants in the room just for me, and at least 5 more for the baby). Kailey was born at 2:38pm weighing 1 pound 1.8 ounces and 11 inches long. My husband and I got moved to a recovery room where we had to wait 5 hours before we were able to see our daughter. When we first saw kailey laying in the incubator we didn't know what to think. She was so tiny. Her eyes were fused shut. She had no fat on her body. She had tubes and wires everywhere. The doctors came and told us that she was stable and we just had to wait and see. Our nurse convinced us to put our hands inside her bed and let her know we were there. My husband went first, he put his finger at her hand and she quickly wrapped her hand around it and would not let go. That was the first time I realized just how strong she was.

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Saturday, October 27, 2012

9 months old...

I Haven't posted in awhile, haven't really had anything at all to post about...until now. Kailey is now 9 months old/ 5 months adjusted. She is a little behind. She isn't trying to crawl, won't reach for things or people and isn't very good at rolling. But she has been supporting her weight with her legs for a few months now. Her legs are very strong, she can go from sitting to standing if you hold her hands to provide balance. She has been amazing her PT since she started getting services. She is still on oxygen 24/7 but we have been able to ween her down to 1/8 of a liter. She is now taking 5oz of formula every 3hrs and we are still working on solids, although she does love oreos. She is the biggest strawberry shortcake fan ever, she would play in her exersaucer all day watching strawberry if i'd let her. She just had her first ENT office visit in Cinci the other day. The swelling in her airway has started to go down! This is the first step to getting rid of her trach!!! In about a week she has Nicu grad appointment, i am not looking forward to it at all. Every time we go they spend 3 mins with her then tell me that she has everything wrong with her, her muscles are weak and she has a floppy neck for example. This kid stood up in her incubator while we were holding her breathing tube inplace when she was 24/25 weeks gestational age, how can someone say she has weak muscles? I'm also not looking forward to them telling me I shouldnt be feeding her what i feed her, we had to switch her formula to similac allem b/c she wasnt tolerating neosure anymore. After the switch i called to let them know that she had liquid stools all day long and it was making a horrible rash on her bottom and all they could tell me was "if shes not tolerating it then we suggest you take her to cinci".....SERIOUSLY? why would i have to take her to cinci for that? So i started putting oatmeal in every bottle and started her on baby food (she only eats about an ounce of baby food a day) on my own. They also do not approve of exersaucers or walkers, which we use almost daily. I do not have the same views on things that they do so I'd prefer not have her seen there. I've already requested to start being seen at the nicu clinic in Hazard Ky since its about 1.5hrs closer to us. We do have to keep her appointment coming up in lexington just so she can see the speach therapist, which we are excited about. Get to try out the speaking valve again, YAY! I do not have any pictures at the moment, but I do add some to instagram every now and then....

1 comment:

  1. Kailey's birthday is comming up... please update us :) I know i'm not the only anxious reader/follower

    /exhaustedMTB/WTEMay2012

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